Memory Care

Memory Care
One Step at a Time

Offering licenced Alzheimer’s care providers.
Trained staff in dementia-related diseases and delivering person-centered care.
Specifically catering to clients with memory problems, dementia and Alzheimer’s.
Offering communities that specialize in helping with behavioral issues.

Nursing Home vs Memory Care

Abundant Senior Living Solutions can help you determine the best avenues for memory care, Alzheimer’s care and dementia care.  If you ever start to see a serious memory problem with a loved one, now is the time to educate.  Perhaps there have been meetings with memory specialists and even a diagnosis of some sort.  It’s a confusing time for both of you, but one thing is clear: It is unsafe for your loved one to continue living alone.  There’s too high a risk of wandering off and injuring, plus loneliness and social isolation can set in.

Is a nursing home appropriate?  It could be, but memory care might be better.  We can help you make this important decision and especially choose the right place.  Our service is completely FREE to seniors!

There are Nursing Homes for People Struggling with Serious Dementia issues.

Some nursing homes aren’t ideal places for those who have serious dementia.  In this case, serious means that most of the time, they don’t remember who you are and have a lot of difficulty with daily living tasks.  Security at a nursing home can be an issue in such situations.  For example, someone who has dementia may be able to wander off quite easily and get lost in the wide world out there.  That’s why it’s important to let Abundant Senior Living Solutions help you choose the right place, centered around your loved one’s unique needs and wants. 

Another potential issue is that dementia care brings serious challenges, and nursing homes aren’t designed to address these.  For instance, nursing homes may put on entertainment programs such as crafts, parties, chair aerobics and scenic bus tours.  These activities aren’t developed specifically to engage a person with dementia.

SOME nursing homes can be large and impersonal spaces with shadows, inconsistent lighting, confusing layouts, muted colors and designs (not all homes, of course!).  In contrast, people who have dementia tend to do better in spaces with brighter colors and that have environments reminiscent of home.  It also helps a great deal if the walking corridor is circular, as people with dementia tend to walk a lot.  They get frustrated if they encounter a door or end of hallway that they cannot get through.  On the other hand, constantly walking in a circle lends a sense of forward progress.  There are much fewer opportunities to stop and get frustrated.

Also, did you know that people who have dementia might perceive extremely dark carpets as holes? Imagine having to step into a gaping hole—to a dementia patient, it can be scary!

The above issues concern people who have serious dementia.  What about cases of mild or moderate dementia?

There Are Other Nursing Homes for People Who Have Mild or Moderate Dementia

If your loved one or family member is in the early or middle stages of dementia, a nursing home may be okay.  That said, wandering is something that some people with moderate dementia do, so whether a nursing home is appropriate depends on the specific person and circumstances.

The personnel at nursing homes should be able to help with grooming, dressing, bathing and other daily living tasks that the dementia might affect.  Oftentimes, your loved ones get frustrated when going into a nursing home, and this isn’t necessarily related to the dementia.  Rather, it’s because they feel dismissed and like no one is listening to them. It’s good to acknowledge their fears and show that you understand what a scary life change this must be.  Validation goes a long way.


Nursing homes, like mentioned earlier, aren’t designed with dementia residents in mind.  There are things you can do to help slow the spread of dementia in your loved one, and these are things the nursing home won’t necessarily do or think to do.  Examples include playing music from your loved one’s younger years (there are even board-certified music therapists) and helping your loved one go on walks and socialize.

The bottom line is…. Even if your loved one is in a nursing home because of early dementia, your involvement may be necessary to slow its spread.   It’s essential to talk to each of the nursing homes you consider and figure out what they can offer someone who has dementia.  Also ask how they deal with common dementia-related behaviors such as aggression.  Unfortunately, some nursing homes harm people who have dementia, although it’s usually not malicious.  For instance, understaffed nursing homes might turn to psychotropic drugs to keep residents sedate because they have been aggressive.


Memory Care Facilities for Those with Dementia

A memory care facility is a type of skilled nursing facility and may be located within a bigger facility. Some memory care facilities are connected to assisted living centers, residential care facilities and nursing homes.  A Lot people like the idea of going into a nursing home that has a memory care facility on the premises.  That way, changing over is easier if another move becomes necessary.

Your family member may be better off at a stand-alone memory care facility than in a memory care unit that is part of a larger nursing home.  The staff at a stand-alone center might be trained better in how to respond to dementia-specific concerns such as aggression and wandering.  The design of the interior space may be friendlier and the programs more appropriate.  The building itself might be circular, and doors and exits painted the same color as the wall to camouflage them so residents don’t feel as trapped.

A nursing home that also has a memory care unit might use the same person to lead activities in both units.  The activities aren’t at the same time, of course, and may even be different.  Still, the same person is in charge of them, and that person might require specific training with dementia.  The activities leader at a stand-alone memory care facility should have more experience in dementia-specific concerns and be able to come up with programs targeted toward those who have dementia related challenges.  It pays to ask questions.  It could be that the activities leader in the memory care unit you’re considering does have specific dementia experience and tailors her programs with that in mind.

Here are some items to look for or ask about in memory care, whether it’s in a stand-alone facility, or built into an assisted living facility or a nursing home:

  • Stations that let residents recreate daily activities from their younger years such as office work or child care
  • Intimate dining areas such as when everyone sits around a personal dining table compared with taking meals in a large cafeteria
  • Ability to engage all senses (smell of cake baking in the dining area, hearing music from childhood, etc.)
  • Routines involving patterns and objects (for example, those with dementia may see something that looks like wood and become alarmed when it doesn’t feel like wood)
  • Safe indoor and outdoor places for active wandering
  • Lighting that is consistent and even (a room shouldn’t have dark spaces and glare off the windows or floor)
  • Great views that allow for natural light (a view of nature is much better than a view of cars filling a parking lot)
  • Thermal comfort to reduce or eliminate areas with hot or cold drafts


We look for a good ratio of no more than five staff members per resident, or you run the risk of your loved ones spending most of their time in front of the television.  We can visit each place you’re considering a few times, including at least one surprise visit.  Look for active engagement versus passive engagement like you’d get with a TV. A healthy ratio of 5-to-1 or better also means more staffers on hand to detect anger triggers such as hunger and pain.  Early detection and stable routines reduce the risk of a blowup, and later, the need for psychotropic drugs.

Financing Memory Care

It can be easier to find a place in a nursing home than in memory care.  One reason is the involvement of red tape and bureaucratic requirements when it comes to memory care.  Plus, there may be a limited number of beds if Medicaid or Medicare is in play, and your loved one may face a long wait to get in. Meanwhile, your loved one can generally qualify for nursing home care if their assets are under a limit that varies by state.

Long-term care insurance and other avenues of private pay such as a reverse mortgage could get your loved one in a memory care facility much more quickly.  It’s ideal to start purchasing long-term care insurance when you’re in your 50s and to add inflation protection so you’re not faced with steep monthly payments in your 70s or 80s when you might still be living independently at home.

The "Abundant" Process

At Abundant Senior Living Solutions, we care about making your decision as stress-free as possible. We understand the circumstances that can prompt your search, from a simpler stress-free lifestyle in an Independent Living community  to minimal or moderate assistance in an Assisted Living community, or the details of care needed for a Memory Care community. Each of our advocates has a wealth of knowledge and resources to provide you with valuable information for assistance in your situation. Once we’ve learned more about your unique needs, we dedicate ourselves to helping you find the ideal living environment.

Through our years of dedication to our seniors, we have seen firsthand the positive effect the “right” community can have on enhancing the lives of our clients. Abundant Senior Living Solutions is an elite service, we will provide you all the resources you need to guide you on the journey—and best of all, our services are completely free.

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